I've updated my Red Rocket story with three new illustrations commissioned from heveti.

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They are specifically designed as illustrations for the story and came out really great!

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I've added a comments section to my personal story site using an external dedicated commenting site (disqus.com). If you are so inclined, please help me test it out and stop by.

Neglected2much's Secret Story Stash (site)
Direct link to comments page

qexiqex has asked to post on my personal website for much the same reasons as I post to it as an alternative to dA for certain content. It's all a bit of an experiment in technology and in the primitive stages, but so far so good. Take a look and let us know what you think! More importantly, read some of Qexiqex's stories if you haven't already! Great stuff!

Neglected2much's Secret Story Stash
Qexiqex's Story Rack

I just finished reading "Arousal: The Secret Logic of Fantasies" by Michael J. Bader. While I do have some criticisms, it is generally a thought provoking book. I feel more comfortable about my own fetishes and fantasies after reading it. 

Here are some quotes:

"If one peruses Nancy Friday's extensive collections of sexual fantasies, the differences in the form and content of men's and women's fantasies are often quite minimal."

"We acquire not only our strengths and virtues in our families, but our pathogenic beliefs as well. These beliefs will shape who we think we are and who we imagine we can become. These pathogenic beliefs also deeply shape our experience of masculinity and femininity and the form and content of our sexual desire. The influence boys to seek sexual safety in objectification and girls to seek it in relationships."

"There will always be stresses in our lives, there will always be potential interference in our capacity to become aroused, and there will always be a corresponding need for sexual fantasies to help us. Thankfully, human beings are blessed with the imagination to create them. Our imaginations are like a portable first-aid kit for our psyches, soothing our pain, circumventing our guilt, and helping us have pleasure."

"Our capacity for sexual fantasy is an enduring aspect of what it means to be human."

"Men definitely tend to objectify women, but they do so in order to preserve their masculinity not primarily to hurt women. Women definitely prefer sex in the context of love, but the purpose of this preference is to diminish their guilt as much as it is to establish a higher form of intimacy."

Experimenting with the chatroom feature on dA. Didn't even know it existed. Anyways, if you have something to talk about or just want to play around with the feature, feel free to stop in.

You can find chat rooms under the "MORE" heading (next to MOBILE and SUBMIT in the top bar) and search for "neglectedhangout" to find the chatroom.

Update:

Thanks mrhungry56, he's a link chat.deviantart.com/chat/negle…

Another update:

Looks like chat information is not retained after you close the window so this is probably not a very useful feature for me unless I know in advance someone will be there.